Read Bill's 1948 Grapevine article on Tradition Three:
Tradition Three
The Third Tradition is a sweeping statement indeed; it takes
in a lot of territory. Some people might think it too
idealistic to be practical. It tells every alcoholic in the
world that he may become, and remain, a member of Alcoholics
Anonymous so long as he says so. In short, Alcoholics
Anonymous has no membership rule.
Why is this so? Our answer is simple and practical. Even in
self-protection, we do not wish to erect the slightest barrier
between ourselves and the fellow alcoholic who still suffers.
We know that society has been demanding that he conform to its
laws and conventions. But the essence of his alcoholic malady
is the fact that he has been unable or unwilling to conform
either to the laws of man or God. If he is anything, the sick
alcoholic is a rebellious nonconformist. How well we
understand that; every member of Alcoholics Anonymous was once
a rebel himself. Hence we cannot offer to meet him at any
halfway mark. We must enter the dark cave where he is and show
him that we understand. We realize that he is altogether too
weak and confused to jump hurdles. If we raise obstacles, he
might stay away and perish. He might be denied his priceless
opportunity.
So when he asks, "Are there any conditions?" we joyfully
reply, "No, not a one." When skeptically he comes back saying,
"But certainly there must be things that I have to do and
believe," we quickly answer, "In Alcoholics Anonymous there
are no musts." Cynically, perhaps, he then inquires, "What is
this all going to cost me?" We are able to laugh and say,
"Nothing at all, there are no fees and dues." Thus, in a brief
hour, is our friend disarmed of his suspicion and rebellion.
His eyes begin to open on a new world of friendship and
understanding. Bankrupt idealist that he has been, his ideal
is no longer a dream. After years of lonely search it now
stands revealed. The reality of Alcoholics Anonymous bursts
upon him. For Alcoholics Anonymous is saying, "We have
something priceless to give, if only you will receive." That
is all. But to our new friend, it is everything. Without more
ado, he becomes one of us.
Our membership Tradition does contain, however, one vitally
important qualification. That qualification relates to the use
of our name, Alcoholics Anonymous. We believe that any two or
three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call
themselves an AA group provided that, as a group, they have no
other affiliation. Here our purpose is clear and unequivocal.
For obvious reasons we wish the name Alcoholics Anonymous to
be used only in connection with straight AA activities. One
can think of no AA member who would like, for example, to see
the formation of "dry" AA groups, "wet" AA groups, communist
AA groups. Few, if any, would wish our groups to be designated
by religious denominations. We cannot lend the AA name, even
indirectly, to other activities, however worthy. If we do so
we shall become hopelessly compromised and divided. We think
that AA should offer its experience to the whole world for
whatever use can be made of it. But not its name. Nothing
could be more certain.
Let us of AA therefore resolve that we shall always be
inclusive and never exclusive, offering all we have to all,
save our title. May all barriers be thus leveled, may our
unity thus be preserved. And may God grant us a long life --
and a useful one!
Copyright © The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., February 1948

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