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The Unexpected
Our
behavior is as absurd and incomprehensible with respect to the first
drink as that of an individual with a passion, say, for jay-walking. He
gets a thrill out of skipping in front of fast-moving vehicles. He
enjoys himself for a few years in spite of friendly warnings. Up to this
point you would label him as a foolish chap having queer ideas of fun.
Luck then deserts him and he is slightly injured several times in
succession. You would expect him, if he were normal, to cut it out.
Presently he is hit again and this time has a fractured skull. Within a
week after leaving the hospital a fast-moving trolley car breaks his
arm. He tells you he has decided to stop jay-walking for good, but in a
few weeks he breaks both legs.
On
through the years this conduct continues, accompanied by his continual
promises to be careful or to keep off the streets altogether. Finally,
he can no longer work, his wife gets a divorce and he is held up to
ridicule. He tries every known means to get the jaywalking idea out of
his head. He shuts himself up in an asylum, hoping to mend his ways. But
the day he comes out he races in front of a fire engine, which breaks
his back. Such a man would be crazy, wouldn't he?
You
may think our illustration is too ridiculous. But is it? We, who have
been through the wringer, have to admit if we substituted alcoholism for
jay-walking, the illustration would fit us exactly. However intelligent
we may have been in other respects, where alcohol has been involved, we
have been strangely insane. It s strong language but isn't it true?
(Page 37-38)
We must be entirely honest with somebody if we expect to live long or happily in this world. (Page 73-74)
In nine cases out of ten the unexpected happens. (Page 78)
In
our belief any scheme of combating alcoholism which proposes to shield
the sick man from temptation is doomed to failure. If the alcoholic
tries to shield himself he may succeed for a time, but he usually winds
up with a bigger explosion than ever. We have tried these methods. These
attempts to do the impossible have always failed.
So our rule is not to avoid a place where there is drinking, if we have a legitimate reason for being there.
That includes bars, nightclubs, dances, receptions, weddings, even
plain ordinary whoopee parties. To a person who has had experience with
an alcoholic, this may seem like tempting Providence, but it isn't.
You
will note that we made an important qualification. Therefore, ask
yourself on each occasion, Have I any good social, business, or personal
reason for going to this place? Or am I expecting to steal a little
vicarious pleasure from the atmosphere of such places? If you answer
these questions satisfactorily, you need have no apprehension. Go or
stay away, whichever seems best. But be sure you are on solid spiritual
ground before you start and that your motive in going is thoroughly
good. (Page 101-102)
I Am Human and Not Perfect
Once
more: The alcoholic at certain times has no effective mental defense
against the first drink. Except in a few rare cases, neither he nor any
other human being can provide such a defense. His defense must come from
a Higher Power. (Page 43)
If
a mere code of morals or a better philosophy of life were sufficient to
overcome alcoholism, many of us would have recovered long ago. But we
found that such codes and philosophies did not save us, no matter how
much we tried. We could wish to be moral, we could wish to be
philosophically comforted, in fact, we could will these things with all
our might, but the needed power wasn't there. Our human resources, as
marshalled by the will, were not sufficient; they failed utterly. (Page
44-45)
Instead
of regarding ourselves as intelligent agents, spearheads of God s ever
advancing Creation, we agnostics and atheists chose to believe that our
human intelligence was the last word, the alpha and the omega, the
beginning and end of all. Rather vain of us, wasn't it?
We,
who have traveled this dubious path, beg you to lay aside prejudice,
even against organized religion. We have learned that whatever the human
frailties of various faiths may be, those faiths have given purpose and
direction to millions. People of faith have a logical idea of what life
is all about. (Page 49)
On
one proposition, however, these men and women are strikingly agreed.
Every one of them has gained access to, and believes in, a Power greater
than himself. This Power has in each case accomplished the miraculous,
the humanly impossible. As a celebrated American statesman put it, Let s
look at the record.
Here
are thousands of men and women, worldly indeed. They flatly declare
that since they have come to believe in a Power greater than themselves,
to take a certain attitude toward that Power, and to do certain simple
things, there has been a revolutionary change in their way of living and
thinking. In the face of collapse and despair, in the face of the total
failure of their human resources, they found that a new power, peace,
happiness, and sense of direction flowed into them. This happened soon
after they wholeheartedly met a few simple requirements. (Page 50)
Many
of us exclaimed, "What an order! I can t go through with it." Do not be
discouraged. No one among us has been able to maintain anything like
perfect adherence to these principles. We are not saints. The point is,
that we are willing to grow along spiritual lines. The principles we
have set down are guides to progress. We claim spiritual progress rather
than spiritual perfection. (Page 60)
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